This past Friday I was invited by a dear friend to the Rock Shabbat service at synagogue. It was an especially important shabbat service, as the Rabbi said he couldn’t imagine not having a service to celebrate the victories of equality this week and as Seattle celebrated PRIDE.
I hadn’t been to a Shabbat service before. Yet, I’ve been wanting to go for years. In graduate school throughout my theology courses I became interested in Shabbat and worship.
This service was such a meaningful one, as I watched couples embrace and cry and rejoice over the small steps toward equality. It was a tender service. As each of us were reminded of the hardships and oppressions so many couples faced over the years and the struggle many were dedicated to. It was a fight to bring a better way of life for everyone– a more just, equal way. It was humbling and remarkable to witness.
One friend remarked that to be a lesbian (when she was coming out in the late 60’s) meant that CPS could come out and take your children away from you. She had an escape plan in the event that should happen to her family.
This was a reading from the service. I had to share it. It is such a compassionate way to look at humanity. We are the twilight people– in between many places and spaces in the world. What a beautiful way to see ourselves. We are not fixed– we are always being transformed and renewed. It’s not about sexuality (although that can be part of it)– it’s about being human. This is what it means to be human.
Twilight People
As the sun sinks and the colors of the day
turn, we offer a blessing for the twilight, for twilight is neither day nor
night, but in-between. We are all
twilight people. We can never be fully
labeled or defined. We are many
identities and loves, many genders and none.
We are in between roles, at the intersection of histories, or between
place and place.
We are crisscrossed paths of memory and
destination, streaks of light swirled together.
We are neither day nor night. We
are both, neither, and all.
May the sacred in-between of this evening suspend our
certainties, soften our judgements, and widen our vision. May this
in-between light illuminate our way
to God who transcends all categories and definitions. May the in-between
people who have come to pray
be lifted up into this twilight. We
cannot always define; we can always say a blessing. Blessed are You, God
of all, who brings on
the twilight.